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the narcissist’s main act- projection

Anxiety # 1- before the discard So in this stage of recovery, you are well aware of the narcissistic relational cycle-love bomb, degrade, discard yet, you still have anxiety. What does this tell you? Anxiety is your brain’s reaction to perceived danger. Your brain is trying to prevent you from danger aka the toxic narcissist. Somehow, the goal for you […]

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3 Major Anxieties

Anyone who has dealt with a narcissist in a romantic relationship knows there are very specific anxieties that are used against you. When in a relationship with a narcissist, trying to deal with a hover or a discard is the glue holding these specific anxieties together. When being discarded, anxiety is felt all the way up to the “already knowing” […]

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The Narcissists Cyber Stalking trick

When dealing with a narcissist who has decided to terrorize and stalk you online, a loss of hope can be something that takes place. It is important to take pictures and collect as much evidence as you can in order to be able to provide evidence and proof of patterns and incidences to the authorities. Narcissists use many tricks when […]

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Psychological Warfare

Psychological Warfare- the use of propaganda, threats, and other psychological techniques to mislead, intimidate, demoralize, or otherwise influence the thinking or behavior of an opponent. The name of the game for pathological narcissists is “psychological warfare”. The goal is to create doubt, confusion and insanity within their victim’s minds. The most effective way to control a person is to enter […]

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No shameee

When your dealing with a narcissist, over time you will see that the narcissist in fact, has no shame -as long as what you see aka what he shows you-cannot be identified as “him”. The narcissist cannot feel shame if his ego aka him is not seen as the one doing an act of shame. It does not matter what […]

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What most forget

When trying to leave a relationship with a narcissist and when trying to figure out what the fuck just happened, we learn that the tactics of the false self is the go to. We hear so much about the false self. Many famous self claimed narcissists state that their false self is their only self in fact. What most forget […]

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Money

Many narcissists like to place their obsession towards money onto others but in a way that implies that the other is ungrateful. Narcissists like to imply that others are not grateful for the things they have or that thr other is too flimpsy or careless with money. You will usually see this take place if you mention in any way […]

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Understanding the unconscious of a narcissist

The mind is a funny thing u know. What the unconscious mind creates is so powerful and for narcissists, their unconscious mind does not coincide with their conscious mind. What a narcissist cognitively experiences does not correlate with their unconscious matter. For one, the narcissists unconscious is compartmentalized which means so is their identity. Secondly, the narcissists unconscious uses and […]

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Caring what the narcissist thinkz

One interesting trap under the narcissists manipulation belt is the narcissist getting their victims to become entrenched in focusing on what the narcissist is thinking and why. The narcissist sets their victims up in a way where they get into a habit of needing to guess what the narcissist is saying or doing. The narcissist most commonly does this with […]

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Secrets kill

When the narcissist abuses you, he or she expects you to of course, keep it a secret. The problem with this is that when you keep it such abuse a secret, the narcissist takes this as an opportunity to abuse you more. There is a common understanding that you will anger the narcissist more by saying anything to others but […]

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A world of shame

There is not much you can say to a narcissistic parent without being shamed and gaslighted. Everything you say constantly leads to the narcissist appearing offended thus, being constantly shamed. Why does this equate gaslighting? To shame a person for something that is not offensive in nature is gaslighting. Shaming a person for something that is not offensive in nature […]

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Not Personal

The realm of interpretation is a tricky thing but unfortunately, the very thing the narcissist likes to exploit. A victim’s words mean so much to the narcissist because words provide narcissists the ability to delusionally interpret their own reflections. Linguistics are used by the narcissist to gain a faulty sense of self but also, to exploit others. Body language, facial […]

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Teacher and student

Narcissists like to teach you how they want to be treated. Narcissists like to learn how they should treat you as well. This is the dynamic of a normal building relationship. Unfortunately though, this dynamic plays out differently with a narcissist. Once this becomes a routine and comfortable for you and enough safe time goes by, the narcissist will turn […]

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3 Common traps

A narcissist will set many linguistic traps in order for the narcissist to regain control. Some common traps are: 1. The narcissist will harass you with calls and texts if you do not respond —You may not want to respond because you are fed up or merely tired of explaining yourself, being shamed or constantly arguing. The narcissist can ignore […]

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Privacy Doesn’t Exist

Covert narcissists like to create an environment that puts this idea in the minds of the people around them that they are being listened to and watched at all times by the narcissist. The narcissist does this is many ways but two very commonly seen ways are: the act of staring and monitoring other people’s behaviour The covert narcissist likes […]

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Failed expectations

Expecting the narcissist to actually make your perfect life actualize, only lead to disappointments. The narcissist cannot actually be what he pretends to be and this is not because the narcissist slowly and methodically removes his mask over time but more so, because he cannot actually be a person of depth and substance. Even if the narcissist’s victims mold into […]